Saturday, June 13, 2009

How To Propose A Girl-Different Ways For Effective Proposal


One Of The Most Tedious Task To Plann For Your Love Life Is To Decide How To Propose Your Spouse

Still A Big Confusion ??
How To Start ?
What Would Be Her/His Reaction ?(Although Most of The Time Time Its Her Reaction...Poor Guys!!)
Nervous ? Scared ? Uncomfortable ? And So On And On...

Many Of Us Dont Know How To Propose And Many a times This Barrier prevents Many Lovers From Steping A Head To Achieve Thier Destiny..!!

Buddies Chill....
Proposing A Girl/Boy Is Easy If You Know That What Exactly The Person Wants..

Well..
Way Of Proposing A Girl/Boy Depends On Person
Like If A Girl Is Soft You Can Go The Silent Way...
Let Me Give You A Simple Example....

Go To A Rose Shop...
Buy 1 White,1 Yellow,1 Pink And 3 Red Roses..

Now What To Do With These Roses...???
Lets Make THis Bit Intresting...
Use Your Creativity And Answer Me What Would You Do With These Roses....
Think Think Use Your Mind...
And Chill At The Last VJ Is Here To Help You Out...!!!

Happy Loving...!!

Friday, June 12, 2009

How To Forget Your Ex



How To Forget Your Ex...

Data Under Construction..!!

How To Overcome Communication Gap





Generally You Feel That You And Your Spouse Have Developed a COmmunication Gap And you dont so much nows a days
Is this The Case With You As well ?
Well there are lots of reasons for such a communication gap
You are busy with you work and can't give proper time, this might result in developing in feeling of insatisfaction in your spouse
they might start taking it in negative way..
ALthough it doesnt happen all the time
In Present time almost everyone understands the fact that world is full of competition and every one need to work damn hard to stay in race.
But still there are some people who develop this kind of feeling within themselves
Dont worry all you need to do is to make them convinced that it is the need of time to work with pace and that takes a lot of efforts and i hope they will understand you,
Sometimes you just leave things on time and wait for Him/Her to realize it by Himself/Herself,
I would not suggest you to follow the same,because some times taking a step forward is better then waiting for the other.
If you ever feel that your spouse is having such feeling then take him/her under consideration and make them realize that you really care, And That Will Really Help You

As we discussed there can be other possible reasons for this communication gap. Some times its your Self Ego that holds you back from stepping forward to solve a problem and that gives rise to communication gap between you and your spouse
I Would simply suggest one thing,

Dont Run Behind Your Ego,Let the Ego Chase You-VJ
Never Do Things according to your ego think a sttep ahead of it and let the ego chase you from behind that will keep you away from problems,

Try to bear pride rather then ego,
A Ego Driven Person Never Leads To Sucess,But A Success Driven Person Always Bring's Back Pride As Return-VJ

So keep A Balance In Your Ego And Your Love And That Do The Purpose
Have A Happy Love Life..
Happy Loving..!!!

Problem Due To Misunderstandings ?


Many A Times It Happens That You And Your Lover Generate Gap Due To Some Misunderstandings On SOme Issues. Infact Most of Us Face This Problem In Our Love Lives.

Niether You Nor Him/Her Have Actually Done Any Thing But The Situation Is Like This Now.Does This Happens With You As Well ? I Am Sure It Does

It Is A Very Common Problem Which Happens With Everyone Until And Unless Your Love Is A Well Planned Script Rather Than Your Internal Feelings For Someone.

But You Dont Need To Worry About This. As I Told You Its A very General Problem So As Its Solution Is Very Simple.

Misunderstang Takes Birth Due To Lack Of Communication Between The Two. We Sometimes Forget To Share SOmething Which In Result Gives Rise To Misunderstanding.

Misunderstanding Can Be About Anything. Your Dedication Your Sincerity And Even ABout Your Job.
Some times you do some thing for him/her and he/she misinterprets it in a different manner
Generally Girls generate more of them. They Have More Doubts Abiut Things Happening Out There With There Boyfriend.Although Boys Are More Loyal To Girls, Most Of The Time Its Girl Who Misinterprests Things. Strange But True.

Well, Thing Which Is Important Is How To Prevent This MisUnderstanding To Prevail Happy And Comfortable Problem free Life.

Solution Is As Simple As You Have Been Dreaming Of. You Might Get Shocked To Know That Solution to This Problem Is Just Time.Just Give Proper time to Your Spouse Make Things Clear,Disscuss Your Issues With Him/Her, Make Them Feel That You Are Not Trying To Hide Anything From Him/Her.

Keeping A Wealthy Communication Helps In Keeping Your Relation Healthy-VJ

So Best Of Luck For Your Love Life Take Care Of Each Other, Have A Healthy Communication
Happy Loving..!!

What Is Love



People say I Love YOu, I Love You Too, I Love You A Lot, I Love You Till My Life
So On an on and on....
But Do You Really Know What Exactly Love Means?
You Love Some One And You Dont Know Its Actual Meaning..
Is This The Case With You ?

Lets Take Some Example

You Saw A girl/Boy And You Started Thinking About Him Her...
Is That Love ?
No Its Not, Its Just An Infatuation

Many A times We Confuse Ourself Between Love And Infatuation

Now Before Knowing Whats Love We Need To KNow WHats Infatuation
Infatuation basically is a strong feeling to like some one when some hits your thoughts so intensionally that you cant just take away your mind from him/him
you notice this is just an infatuation and not love
because it is not necessary that you wil have the same feeling for him or her for life time.
it may be for 1 day, a couple,a week , a month or may be even for a year
although there are chances that your infuation may some day become your love but that is a different issue an infatuation is infatuation.

Now lets get back to love
i was surfing through some sites and found some beautiful thoughts by some writers and would like you to know about them as well


"Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it, and it darts away." - Dorothy Parker

"Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it...It really is worth fighting for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk everything, you risk even more." - Erica Jong

so you see
Love Is Not Easy
Love Is When You Know A Person Almost Completely
His/her Plus Points as wel as shortcomings
n then you feel that you want to spend rest of your life with person

Some say it's mysterious, magical, complex, difficult, imaginary, thought-provoking, inspirational, intuitional, joyous, immeasurable, ecstasy, and undefinable. Perhaps.

In one of Dr. John Gray's audio cassettes he defines love as follows: "Love is a feeling directed at someone which acknowledges their goodness."

So if you feel You ARe In Love
Then Do Analyse It Keenly And Conclude that whether this is love or just an infatuation.

And Love Guru Is Here To Solve Your Queries
Click Here To Summit A Love Problem To Love Guru

Best Of Luck
Happy Loving..!!